|| need some z's
1) Always do what you say you're going to. If you say you're gonna call, then call. In most girls books its a major loss of brownie points to not call.
2) Don't say i love you just to say i love you. If you say it, you better mean it.
3) If you do love a girl, never miss the opportunity to say so. It makes her question her security.
4) Talk to her. She shouldn't have to work hard to keep a convo going. Remember that a conversation is a two-sided thing, ask her questions too. This makes her feel close to you.
5) Its okay to be a little jealous of other guys. If you don't feel jealous when other guys hit on her, yet again you look like an flaming asshole.
6) If someone's a shit to her, threaten to kick their butt. Even though some would never admit to this, girls like to feel protected.
7) If you don't know what her favorite flower, color, food, and song are you probably are a piece of shit, becuase I can promise she probably knows all of these things about you.
8) Avoid swearing in her presence. You should behave as though you're lucky as fuck to be with her. Because quite franctly, you are.
9) Don't be late. The guy should be the one doing the waiting.
10) Take it slow. Not only do you look like a jerkoff when you use the whole, "I thought you loved me, why won't you play with my penis" line, (that was slightly exaggerated) but things are also sexier when you slow down. Hey buddy, wheres the fire?
11) Most girls dont mind paying. but you look like crap if you sit down, have an excellent meal, and then don't have enough money for the both of you. And I can promise her friends will know about it. And then I promise you'll hear about it from your friends. avoid the complication and just be a man and pay.
11.5) If she orders water, its an indication that she believes you will be paying. becuase waters free, and If you intend on purchasing her a meal she figures you don't need to be paying for her diet coke also.
12) Don't cheat. Getting drunk is not an excuse to hook up with another girl. If you don't think you can control yourself when you're drunk, then don't drink to excesss.
13) Don't lie. people talk. she will find out about it, and then you will be screwed.
14) It you're in a relationship its okay to hit on her every now and then. She likes you remember? hence being in the relationship.
15) If you're in a relationship you should also be able to say stupid weird stuff to one another and not have the other person feel put off. If you can't be the person who you really are, then what good is the relationship?
16) When introducing her to your friends, you better introduce her as your girlfriend. and do it in a way that shows you're proud to have her by your side.
17) If you're thinking about her all the time, its okay to let her know every once in a while. It will make her feel like less of a freak because, yet again though she would never admit it, she does the same.
18) Don't kiss and tell. It makes you look like a desperate cocky shitface. Its so much classier to keep your mouth shut. And it will also make her willing to go farther, So its definatley not in you best interest to talk about it.
19) remember little details of what she says. this will earn you major brownie points to be reimbursed later on.
10)Its always the random expressions of love that count the most. They're always the most genuine too. If you're in the middle of a conversation with her, and all of a sudden you feel like sharing how amazing she looks or how good you feel when you're together, then do it. Always say what you feel.
21) Don't stress over hanging out with her. Don't even stress over the movie you'll be watching or where you'll be watching it. She really only wants to be with you. And if all goes well, you won't even be watching the movie, now, will you?"
found that on someones myspace and thought a guy or 2 might like a heads up on some stuff because they all seem to be clueless!!!!! haha
p.s. i wanna be YOUR hero .